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srijeda, 25. veljače 2015.

YOUR EYES ???


  • The eye is the window to the universe, and some would say they are also windows to the soul.. We have heard this phrase get passed around before: “The eyes are the windows of the soul”. People usually say this when they can see pain, anger, or some other emotion in somebody else’s eyes. But recent research gives a whole new meaning to this phrase. Eyes not only windows to emotions, they are windows to the soul. 

  • How? The answer has to do with the actual eyeball itself. Everyone has a different structure of lines, dots and colours within the iris of their eye. Some people may have similar eye colour to each other, but the lines and dots on the iris are as unique as a fingerprint. 


  • What they found 

  • Their findings showed those with denselypacked crypts are more warmhearted, tender, trusting, and likely to sympathise with others. In comparison, those with more contraction furrows were more neurotic, impulsive and likely to give way to cravings. 

  • It’s crazy to think how the markings on a person’s eyeball can reveal the most deep-rooted character traits of an individual. 



  • Eye colour reveals even more 

  • According to researchers at Pittsburgh University, women with lighter colored eyes experience less pain during childbirth compared to women with darker eyes. People with lighter eyes also consume significantly more alcohol, as darker eyed people require less alcohol to become intoxicated. 

  • The reason boils down to genes. A senior lecturer in biomolecular sciences at Liverpool John Moores University said, “What we know now is that eye color is based on 12 to 13 individual variations in people’s genes… These genes do other things in the body.” 

  • Take melanin,the pigment that makes eyes darker. Melanin may also makes people more susceptible to alcohol. When psychologists at Georgia State University in Atlanta surveyed more than 12,000 men and women, they found those with light eyes consumed significantly more alcohol than those with dark eyes. The reason brown-eyed people may drink less – and also be less likely to be alcoholics – is because they need less alcohol to become intoxicated. 

  • Melanin not only determines eye darkness, it’s also an insulator for the electrical connections between brain cells. The more melanin in the brain, the more efficiently, sensitively and faster the brain can work, the researchers reported in the journal Personality and Individual Differences. So the chemical responsible for eye darkness is also responsible for brain efficiency. 

  • Eyes are literally the windows to the inner most aspects of our personality and character traits. If you look into someones eyes, you can easily tell if they are scared, sad, or worn down inside. But if you look even closer, you will also be able to see what kind of psychology and personality that person has. Eyes are literally a window into people’s souls. 

  • Article source: 

  • Inspired by an article seen on The Daily Mail 
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utorak, 10. veljače 2015.

20 COMMON COMPLAINTS THAT LOWER YOUR VIBRATION

To have a great life, we must be mindful of the language that we choose to use. The Law of Attraction states that you will receive what you are thinking about.  Because your speech is a reflection of your thoughts, what you say can heavily influence what the Law of Attraction brings to you.



And of course, continuously complaining also obstructs our ability to be happy and productive.  It keeps us trapped in the same energy we are complaining about.

Complaints are result of thinking about the unwanted. As we complain, we send a message that we are focused strongly on what we don’t want. 

 In other words, complaints take an already low vibration and push it even lower; they “up the ante” of the negative thought because now you aren’t just thinking about the problem once, but you are harping on it by bringing it up again and again in conversation.


Though all complaints affect your vibration negatively, there are some complaints that are so commonplace that for many of us they have become a sort of negative daily mantra. Unfortunately, repeatedly complaining about the same thing results in having to experience it time and again! It becomes a never-ending cycle: we complain, the universe gives us more to complain about, and then we complain again.  Fortunately, if we stop complaining, then the cycle can be broken.
Here are a few of these common complaints in society today. These complaints are so common that we can be easily seduced into repeating them over and over again, so they are especially important to avoid saying (even if they are true!):


1) I have a headache/migraine

2) My stomach hurts

3) I’m hungry

4) I hate my job

5) This weather sucks

6) Traffic was awful/I was stuck in traffic

7) I’m stressed

8) People have no manners today

9) Chivalry is dead

10) All the good men are taken

11) I’m sick/I don’t feel good

12) She is such a b****

13) My boss is a jerk

14) I’m so fat/bloated

15) Men are jerks

16) I hate him/her

17) Kids these days are so ______

18) I’m tired/exhausted/I didn’t get enough sleep

19) It’s too hot/too cold/I’m freezing

20) I’m bored


Again, while all complaints lower your vibration, common complaints can be especially dangerous.  Since we hear these complaints often from others, they can easily roll off the tongue and become statements that we repeatedly use.  Sometimes, we will even use them to start conversations simply because we are bored.  The more that we think about and complain about something, the more that the Law of Attraction will bring us that problem that we are complaining about.  Therefore, to raise your vibration and use the Law of Attraction effectively, it is wise to avoid these complaints.

By choosing not to complain about our problems we send a message to the universe that we expect them to be resolved. With expectation comes manifestation, so by demonstrating to the universe that we expect our problems to be insignificant and easy to resolve, they will become so!


For reality to manifest the way that we want it to, we must tell our story the way we want it to be.  If what you are saying isn’t the way you want things to be, you can choose to stop talking about it.  Stick to telling people about the good stuff. When you tell a better story you’ll have a better life!




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subota, 7. veljače 2015.

MERLINITE... A Stone of Duality (DENDRITIC OPAL)

Black and White... Light and Dark 
Magic and Good Luck... and Dark Night of The Soul



Merlinite is a stone of duality... of black and white... and light and dark. This is a stone that attracts powerful magic and good luck into your life... and it may also take you to places where you make contact with the deeper, darker parts of yourself.
The vibration of this stone is very shamanistic... as it allows you to access the energy of the natural world and communicate with elementals.
It is said to conjure the memories of alchemists and wizards... such as the wizard Merlin from Arthurian times. It is a stone that stimulates deep intuition, psychic knowing and spiritual mediumship.

It a stone of harmony that aids the birth of creativity and clear psychic visions, and it will aid you to access higher spiritual energy... and to make contact with guides and teachers in the higher realms. But it is not only a stone for the light... as it may allow you to experience 'dark night of the soul' aspects of your higher-self.


Where Does It Come From

This stone currently comes from only one mine in New Mexico, and this is a trade name for a specific variety of stone that comes from this one mine. It is a variety of Dendritic Opal... and sometimes has an opalescent sheen. It may contain a blend of white chalcedony or white quartz, black dendritic inclusions and black Psilomelane... depending on the individual stone.
Please Note: This is not the same stone that they are calling Mystic Merlinite. Mystic Merlinite is a different stone altogether from the stone that I am talking about here.

Merlinite is black and white... although its black color ranges from dark grey to bluish-black. The black may be Psilomelane or Romanechite... or it may be Black Dendritic inclusions within the stone. These dendritic inclusions resemble a leafy plant... similar to a fern and are easy to spot. The Psilomelane is a black mineral that is a manganese oxide.

Why Would You Use Merlinite

This beautiful stone has a vibration that helps to promote spiritual growth. It blends heavenly and earthly energy... and it helps you to remain open and approachable. It assists you to embrace things that happen, that are different to your normal way of living your life.
Merlinite is a strong spiritual stone with the vibration of duality. It will help you to balance the masculine and feminine energy within yourself... and to better understand the aspects of God and the Goddess. These stones are helpful to use to aid your spiritual growth... as they allow spirit teachers to come through to this plane to work with you.

It's energy will allow you to access the spirit world... and it is known to aid the development of mediumistic abilities. These crystals encourage you to make contact with the spirit of those on the other side of the veil... to access the Akashic records, and to bring messages back for living relatives.
These stones are particularly useful to use to boost the energy of other stones of a lower vibration. Merlinite resonates strongly within the third eye chakra... and is known to stimulate psychic knowingautomatic writing and clear psychic visions or clairvoyance.

How To Use It

Merlinite is easy to buy... and this is a stone that aids travel out of the body and vision quests of a shamanistic nature. It may take you to specific location and to visit specific people there. This crystal was named after the wizard Merlin... because of its specific attributes to attract magical and mystical experiences into your life.

Merlinite will allow you to take journeys to past lives in the times when Merlin and King Arthur lived.
If you sleep with one of these stones under your pillow... you may find that you have more restful sleep.
You may also experience vivid dreams of past lives... especially those you experienced in the Arthurian times.
Note: You need to specifically direct your journey for it to be successful. If you wish to get you to where you want to go... simply hoping for the best will not make you succeed. It takes specific in-depth working with this stone for this type of journey to be successful. Make sure you keep psychic protection stones on you while you are doing this work.

How Will It Help You

These stones are dualistic in nature... and may take you on a journey to the deeper and darker aspects of yourself. As they help you to have a more approachable outlook... this may aid you to handle the experience... and learn to use the lower energies to balance yourself as you integrate them into total being.
Fortunately Merlinite stones will aid you to master yourself... and to remain objective. The dark night of the soul experiences that this stone evokes may be vivid and quite graphic.
Using the knowledge of both light and dark to bring total understanding of who you are, is the source of enlightenment.
They are powerful stones to aid investigation of past lives... and in particular will encourage you to experience old unhappy past life memories.
This is important as sometimes what you experience can show you images that may be negative and very disturbing. The quite amazing images that these stone has the potential to allow you to bring through... are not always easy to experience, but as they also increase the occurrence of coincidences and synchronicity, this could help you to work out the meaning of what you see.
By keeping in mind the end result, and helping your higher self to let go of karmic situations... they are potent tools for learning more about your purpose in this life. Once you have cleared the accumulated negativity, use them regularly to keep yourself clear.

If they can be used with a positive frame of mind, they may allow you to clear negativity and rid yourself of deep past life problems and karma that you have been unable to release any other way.
Merlinite jewelry is lovely to look and powerful to wear. Be aware that some pieces of jewelry made from this stone may be sold as Dendritic quartz or Dendritic opal, as these are names that this stone is known as.
By wearing Sagittarius birthstone jewelry made from this stone, this will help you to benefit from this vibration on a day to day basis.

This stones energy vibrates strongly within the sacral or navel chakra. This is the area of teh body where you can develop the gifts of clairsentience or clear seeing and where you can help to create stronger intuitive gifts.
Working within the solar plexus or power chakra, it helps to stimulate your creativity and it will aid you to access higher spiritual energy, and they help you to develop an open and approachable way of seeing life.
Merlinite or Dendritic Opal stones may attract magic and good luck into your life... but it may also take you to places where you make contact with the darker aspects of yourself.
It may take you on a voyage to the dark night of the soul... and allow you to understand the darker aspects of your soul-self... and specific past life experiences.
These are positive stones to aid you toenhance your creativity... and they will boost your organizational abilities. It stimulates your intuition, psychic knowing, and spiritual mediumship, and it will balance the masculine and feminine energy within yourself... and to better understand the aspects of the duality of God and the Goddess.


četvrtak, 5. veljače 2015.

KAKO VAM ENERGIJA PUNOG MJESECA MOŽE DONIJETI NOVAC U RUKE



Mesec je nebesko telo najbliže Zemlji i zato je njegov uticaj na nas najsnažniji. Svi znamo da utiče na plimu i oseku, a pomislite šta tek čini ljudskom organizmu koji sadrži 72 odsto vode.

Mesec ima najjači uticaj kad je u fazi, odnosno kada je mlad ili pun. Pun Mesec predstavlja astrološku opoziciju Sunca i Meseca, odnosno period kada Mesec prima najviše svetlosti od Sunca.
Tada možete videti Mesec kako blista na noćnom nebu u punom sjaju. Ta svetlost je čista energija.
Iako će zbog svoje snage na zdravstvenom planu napraviti disbalans i mnogima doneti nesanicu, za finansije je ta energija dragocena.
Najednostavniji ritual jeste da uzmete novčanicu (po mogućstvu crvenu) i njome mašete prema Mesecu i zamišljate kako vam se novac umnožava.
Tu novčanicu onda ostavite u novčanik da prenoći a idući dan potrošite – prenosi Lisa.rs.
Slično ovome, kada je Mesec u fazi opadanja (nekoliko dana nakon uštapa) gledajte u Mesec i razmišljajte o tome kako vaši problemi nestaju, opadaju.


srijeda, 28. siječnja 2015.

INTELLIGENT PEOPLE STAY UP LATE, DO MORE DRUGS AND HAVE MORE SEX - RESEARCH

By Steven Bancarz|  What is the mark of an intelligent mind in our day and age?  When we think of intelligent people, we may have been conditioned to envision them in a library somewhere studying.  We associate intelligence with social reservation and good behaviour.
But what if the opposite were true?  What if the ones who are most intelligent are engaging in behaviours grandma and grandpa wouldn’t approve of?  Times have changed, and people who have a higher intelligence aren’t always interested in studying and following the rules.
This may sound a bit shocking, but a series of studies have come out showing that intelligent people stay up later, do more drugs, and have more sex. The people in our society who have the highest IQs are noctural and enjoy indulging in drugs and sex more often than people with a lower IQ.
Here is a list of the three studies that should completely change the way we think about intelligence and behaviour:


1) Intelligent People Are Night Owls

In a study published in Personality and Individual Differencesresearchers proposed the hypothesis that people who are of high intelligence will be drawn to evolutionarily novel behaviours.  Novel behaviours (new behaviours) are thought to be evolutionary advantageous because they expand our problem solving ability and provide us with new knowledge we can use to improve our lives.  It’s kind of like nature’s way of pushing itself to evolve and create something new.
They found that intelligent people are not only more likely to be liberal and free thinkers, they are also more likely to have different circadian rhythms (sleep cycles).
The study found that people with high childhood and adulthood IQs went to bed about half an hour later each night than people of normal intelligence, and 30 minutes later than people of lower intellectual ability.  They also wake up later by about the same margains as well.  This was true of both weekends and weekdays.
As the study concludes:
Survey of ethnographies of traditional societies suggests that nocturnal activities were probably rare in the ancestral environment, so the Hypothesis would predict that more intelligent individuals are more likely to be nocturnal than less intelligent individuals. The analysis of the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health) confirms the prediction.

The correlation from the study was very clear.  The higher the IQ, the later they tend to stay up.  And these results were concluded from a sample of over 20,000 people. If you or your children have a habit of staying up late and can’t seem to break it, that could actually be a good thing.  Instead of trying to force yourself to go to bed “on time”, use that time to do something creative.

2) Intelligent People Do More Drugs




Intelligent people aren’t just night owls, they also seem to be more into experimenting with drugs.  Sounds crazy right?  It didn’t make sense at first to me either.  Some of the least intelligent people I have ever met smoke and drink way too much.  But on average, if you have a higher IQ, you are more likely to experiment with drugs.
A National Child Development study reported on in Psychology Today, people who have high IQs both in childhood and adulthood are much more likely to experiment with psychoactive drugs than people with low IQs.  Why? Because psychoactive drugs are evolutionarily novel and different from the general behaviour of our ancestors.
According this study which was published in the UK in 2010:
Net of sex, religion, religiosity, marital status, number of children, education, earnings, depression, satisfaction with life, social class at birth, mother’s education, and father’s education, British children who are more intelligent before the age of 16 are more likely to consume psychoactive drugs at age 42 than less intelligent children.
…there is a clear monotonic association between childhood general intelligence and adult consumption of psychoactive drugs. “Very bright” individuals (with IQs above 125) are roughly three-tenths of a standard deviation more likely to consume psychoactive drugs than “very dull” individuals (with IQs below 75).

Another study published in 2011 in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health found that people who scored high in intelligent tests as children were much more likely to experiment with illegal drugs in their adulthood, especially cannabis.  Another study published in 2012 came upon the exact same discovery that intelligent children were more likely to use cannabis, amphetamines, and magic mushrooms later in life.

3) Intelligent People Have More Sex

Additionally, researchers in the UK  found that students studying at universities such as Oxford and Cambridge spent more money on sex toys than at other universities. “The correlation probably has something to do with the open-mindedness that comes with intelligence,” says Annalisa Rose, 23, who works at LoveHoney, a high-end sex shop in Williamsburg, Brooklyn.
“I think that the ability to engage in an open sex life comes with the abilities of introspection and logical thought, and those require some level of intelligence. If we’re talking about an open sex life that comes from an emotionally healthy place, sexual morals are mostly made up anyway and intelligent people can rationalize past them…High-achievers aim for excellence in all areas of their life, so it makes sense that achieving sexual happiness is one of their goals.”
This is quite the significant sociological finding.  Students studying at the worlds most elite universities also spend the most money on sex toys.  It also appears that the more prestigious the university, the more students have sex.  These findings which were reported on The Telegraph have sparked speculation that high intelligence might be correlated with an increased sex drive.
Here is a list the top 5 Universities that spend the most amount of money on sex toys per year:
1) Cambridge £9,793
2) Oxford £9,689
3) Manchester £5,441
4) Lancaster £4,103
5) York £3,751

What does this all mean?

Correlation does not imply causation.  This does not mean that staying up late, doing drugs, and experimenting with sex toys makes you more intelligent.  But it seems to be the case that people who naturally have a higher degree of intelligence partake in these activities naturally because they are drawn to them.  Maybe it is because of their openmindedness, their desire to expand their mind and their experience, or a biological urge to experiment with something novel.
Chances are, a lot of people reading this tend to stay up late and indulge in life’s pleasures.  This is not necessarily a bad thing, and it may even be a natural consequence of having an above average IQ.  These three studies completely shatter everything we would expect to be true about people of high intelligence.  It seems to be the intellectuals that are having the most fun.  I think it’s time we let go of old stereotypes.
Sources: Listed within the article

About the Author: My name is Steven Bancarz, and I am the creator of ‘Spirit Science and Metaphysics’.  Thank you for 
reading this article!




utorak, 27. siječnja 2015.

THE SHAMANIC VIEW OF MENTAL ILLNESS - when the person does not get assistance in dealing with the presence of the energy from the spirit realm

..." when the person does not get assistance in dealing with the presence of the energy from the spirit realm"



In the shamanic view, mental illness signals “the birth of a healer,” explains Malidoma Patrice Somé. Thus, mental disorders are spiritual emergencies, spiritual crises, and need to be regarded as such to aid the healer in being born.
What those in the West view as mental illness, the Dagara people regard as “good news from the other world.” The person going through the crisis has been chosen as a medium for a message to the community that needs to be communicated from the spirit realm. “Mental disorder, behavioral disorder of all kinds, signal the fact that two obviously incompatible energies have merged into the same field,”says Dr. Somé. These disturbances result when the person does not get assistance in dealing with the presence of the energy from the spirit realm.
One of the things Dr. Somé encountered when he first came to the United States in 1980 for graduate study was how this country deals with mental illness. When a fellow student was sent to a mental institute due to “nervous depression,” Dr. Somé went to visit him.
“I was so shocked. That was the first time I was brought face to face with what is done here to people exhibiting the same symptoms I’ve seen in my village.” What struck Dr. Somé was that the attention given to such symptoms was based on pathology, on the idea that the condition is something that needs to stop. This was in complete opposition to the way his culture views such a situation. As he looked around the stark ward at the patients, some in straitjackets, some zoned out on medications, others screaming, he observed to himself, “So this is how the healers who are attempting to be born are treated in this culture. What a loss! What a loss that a person who is finally being aligned with a power from the other world is just being wasted.”
Another way to say this, which may make more sense to the Western mind, is that we in the West are not trained in how to deal or even taught to acknowledge the existence of psychic phenomena, the spiritual world. In fact, psychic abilities are denigrated. When energies from the spiritual world emerge in a Western psyche, that individual is completely unequipped to integrate them or even recognize what is happening. The result can be terrifying. Without the proper context for and assistance in dealing with the breakthrough from another level of reality, for all practical purposes, the person is insane. Heavy dosing with anti-psychotic drugs compounds the problem and prevents the integration that could lead to soul development and growth in the individual who has received these energies.
On the mental ward, Dr Somé saw a lot of “beings”hanging around the patients, “entities” that are invisible to most people but that shamans and psychics are able to see. “They were causing the crisis in these people,” he says. It appeared to him that these beings were trying to get the medications and their effects out of the bodies of the people the beings were trying to merge with, and were increasing the patients’ pain in the process. “The beings were acting almost like some kind of excavator in the energy field of people. They were really fierce about that. The people they were doing that to were just screaming and yelling,” he said. He couldn’t stay in that environment and had to leave.
In the Dagara tradition, the community helps the person reconcile the energies of both worlds–”the world of the spirit that he or she is merged with, and the village and community.” That person is able then to serve as a bridge between the worlds and help the living with information and healing they need. Thus, the spiritual crisis ends with the birth of another healer. “The other world’s relationship with our world is one of sponsorship,” Dr. Somé explains. “More often than not, the knowledge and skills that arise from this kind of merger are a knowledge or a skill that is provided directly from the other world.”
The beings who were increasing the pain of the inmates on the mental hospital ward were actually attempting to merge with the inmates in order to get messages through to this world. The people they had chosen to merge with were getting no assistance in learning how to be a bridge between the worlds and the beings’ attempts to merge were thwarted. The result was the sustaining of the initial disorder of energy and the aborting of the birth of a healer.
“The Western culture has consistently ignored the birth of the healer,” states Dr. Somé. “Consequently, there will be a tendency from the other world to keep trying as many people as possible in an attempt to get somebody’s attention. They have to try harder.” The spirits are drawn to people whose senses have not been anesthetized. “The sensitivity is pretty much read as an invitation to come in,” he notes.
Those who develop so-called mental disorders are those who are sensitive, which is viewed in Western culture as oversensitivity. Indigenous cultures don’t see it that way and, as a result, sensitive people don’t experience themselves as overly sensitive. In the West, “it is the overload of the culture they’re in that is just wrecking them,” observes Dr. Somé. The frenetic pace, the bombardment of the senses, and the violent energy that characterize Western culture can overwhelm sensitive people.

SCHIZOPHRENIA AND FOREIGN ENERGY

With schizophrenia, there is a special “receptivity to a flow of images and information, which cannot be controlled,” stated Dr. Somé. “When this kind of rush occurs at a time that is not personally chosen, and particularly when it comes with images that are scary and contradictory, the person goes into a frenzy.”
What is required in this situation is first to separate the person’s energy from the extraneous foreign energies, by using shamanic practice (what is known as a “sweep”) to clear the latter out of the individual’s aura. With the clearing of their energy field, the person no longer picks up a flood of information and so no longer has a reason to be scared and disturbed, explains Dr. Somé.
Then it is possible to help the person align with the energy of the spirit being attempting to come through from the other world and give birth to the healer. The blockage of that emergence is what creates problems. “The energy of the healer is a high-voltage energy,” he observes. “When it is blocked, it just burns up the person. It’s like a short-circuit. Fuses are blowing. This is why it can be really scary, and I understand why this culture prefers to confine these people. Here they are yelling and screaming, and they’re put into a straitjacket. That’s a sad image.” Again, the shamanic approach is to work on aligning the energies so there is no blockage, “fuses” aren’t blowing, and the person can become the healer they are meant to be.
It needs to be noted at this point, however, that not all of the spirit beings that enter a person’s energetic field are there for the purposes of promoting healing. There are negative energies as well, which are undesirable presences in the aura. In those cases, the shamanic approach is to remove them from the aura, rather than work to align the discordant energies

ALEX: CRAZY IN THE USA, HEALER IN AFRICA

To test his belief that the shamanic view of mental illness holds true in the Western world as well as in indigenous cultures, Dr. Somé took a mental patient back to Africa with him, to his village. “I was prompted by my own curiosity to find out whether there’s truth in the universality that mental illness could be connected with an alignment with a being from another world,” says Dr. Somé.
Alex was an 18-year-old American who had suffered a psychotic break when he was 14. He had hallucinations, was suicidal, and went through cycles of dangerously severe depression. He was in a mental hospital and had been given a lot of drugs, but nothing was helping. “The parents had done everything–unsuccessfully,” says Dr. Somé. “They didn’t know what else to do.”
With their permission, Dr. Somé took their son to Africa. “After eight months there, Alex had become quite normal, Dr. Somé reports. He was even able to participate with healers in the business of healing; sitting with them all day long and helping them, assisting them in what they were doing with their clients . . . . He spent about four years in my village.” Alex stayed by choice, not because he needed more healing. He felt, “much safer in the village than in America.”
To bring his energy and that of the being from the spiritual realm into alignment, Alex went through a shamanic ritual designed for that purpose, although it was slightly different from the one used with the Dagara people. “He wasn’t born in the village, so something else applied. But the result was similar, even though the ritual was not literally the same,” explains Dr. Somé. The fact that aligning the energy worked to heal Alex demonstrated to Dr. Somé that the connection between other beings and mental illness is indeed universal.
After the ritual, Alex began to share the messages that the spirit being had for this world. Unfortunately, the people he was talking to didn’t speak English (Dr. Somé was away at that point). The whole experience led, however, to Alex’s going to college to study psychology. He returned to the United States after four years because “he discovered that all the things that he needed to do had been done, and he could then move on with his life.”
The last that Dr. Somé heard was that Alex was in graduate school in psychology at Harvard. No one had thought he would ever be able to complete undergraduate studies, much less get an advanced degree.
Dr. Somé sums up what Alex’s mental illness was all about: “He was reaching out. It was an emergency call. His job and his purpose was to be a healer. He said no one was paying attention to that.”
After seeing how well the shamanic approach worked for Alex, Dr. Somé concluded that spirit beings are just as much an issue in the West as in his community in Africa. “Yet the question still remains, the answer to this problem must be found here, instead of having to go all the way overseas to seek the answer. There has to be a way in which a little bit of attention beyond the pathology of this whole experience leads to the possibility of coming up with the proper ritual to help people.

LONGING FOR SPIRITUAL CONNECTION

A common thread that Dr. Somé has noticed in “mental” disorders in the West is “a very ancient ancestral energy that has been placed in stasis, that finally is coming out in the person.” His job then is to trace it back, to go back in time to discover what that spirit is. In most cases, the spirit is connected to nature, especially with mountains or big rivers, he says.
In the case of mountains, as an example to explain the phenomenon, “it’s a spirit of the mountain that is walking side by side with the person and, as a result, creating a time-space distortion that is affecting the person caught in it.” What is needed is a merger or alignment of the two energies, “so the person and the mountain spirit become one.” Again, the shaman conducts a specific ritual to bring about this alignment.
Dr. Somé believes that he encounters this situation so often in the United States because “most of the fabric of this country is made up of the energy of the machine, and the result of that is the disconnection and the severing of the past. You can run from the past, but you can’t hide from it.” The ancestral spirit of the natural world comes visiting. “It’s not so much what the spirit wants as it is what the person wants,”he says. “The spirit sees in us a call for something grand, something that will make life meaningful, and so the spirit is responding to that.”
That call, which we don’t even know we are making, reflects “a strong longing for a profound connection, a connection that transcends materialism and possession of things and moves into a tangible cosmic dimension. Most of this longing is unconscious, but for spirits, conscious or unconscious doesn’t make any difference.” They respond to either.
As part of the ritual to merge the mountain and human energy, those who are receiving the“mountain energy” are sent to a mountain area of their choice, where they pick up a stone that calls to them. They bring that stone back for the rest of the ritual and then keep it as a companion; some even carry it around with them. “The presence of the stone does a lot in tuning the perceptive ability of the person,” notes Dr. Somé. “They receive all kinds of information that they can make use of, so it’s like they get some tangible guidance from the other world as to how to live their life.”
When it is the “river energy,” those being called go to the river and, after speaking to the river spirit, find a water stone to bring back for the same kind of ritual as with the mountain spirit.
“People think something extraordinary must be done in an extraordinary situation like this,” he says. That’s not usually the case. Sometimes it is as simple as carrying a stone.

A SACRED RITUAL APPROACH TO MENTAL ILLNESS

One of the gifts a shaman can bring to the Western world is to help people rediscover ritual, which is so sadly lacking. “The abandonment of ritual can be devastating. From the spiritual view, ritual is inevitable and necessary if one is to live,” Dr. Somé writes in Ritual: Power, Healing, and Community.“To say that ritual is needed in the industrialized world is an understatement. We have seen in my own people that it is probably impossible to live a sane life without it.”
Dr. Somé did not feel that the rituals from his traditional village could simply be transferred to the West, so over his years of shamanic work here, he has designed rituals that meet the very different needs of this culture. Although the rituals change according to the individual or the group involved, he finds that there is a need for certain rituals in general.
One of these involves helping people discover that their distress is coming from the fact that they are “called by beings from the other world to cooperate with them in doing healing work.” Ritual allows them to move out of the distress and accept that calling.
Another ritual need relates to initiation. In indigenous cultures all over the world, young people are initiated into adulthood when they reach a certain age. The lack of such initiation in the West is part of the crisis that people are in here, says Dr. Somé. He urges communities to bring together “the creative juices of people who have had this kind of experience, in an attempt to come up with some kind of an alternative ritual that would at least begin to put a dent in this kind of crisis.”
Another ritual that repeatedly speaks to the needs of those coming to him for help entails making a bonfire, and then putting into the bonfire “items that are symbolic of issues carried inside the individuals . . . It might be the issues of anger and frustration against an ancestor who has left a legacy of murder and enslavement or anything, things that the descendant has to live with,” he explains. “If these are approached as things that are blocking the human imagination, the person’s life purpose, and even the person’s view of life as something that can improve, then it makes sense to begin thinking in terms of how to turn that blockage into a roadway that can lead to something more creative and more fulfilling.”
The example of issues with an ancestors touches on rituals designed by Dr. Somé that address a serious dysfunction in Western society and in the process “trigger enlightenment” in participants. These are ancestral rituals, and the dysfunction they are aimed at is the mass turning-of-the-back on ancestors. Some of the spirits trying to come through, as described earlier, may be “ancestors who want to merge with a descendant in an attempt to heal what they weren’t able to do while in their physical body.”
“Unless the relationship between the living and the dead is in balance, chaos ensues,” he says. “The Dagara believe that, if such an imbalance exists, it is the duty of the living to heal their ancestors. If these ancestors are not healed, their sick energy will haunt the souls and psyches of those who are responsible for helping them.” The rituals focus on healing the relationship with our ancestors, both specific issues of an individual ancestor and the larger cultural issues contained in our past. Dr. Somé has seen extraordinary healing occur at these rituals.
Taking a sacred ritual approach to mental illness rather than regarding the person as a pathological case gives the person affected–and indeed the community at large–the opportunity to begin looking at it from that vantage point too, which leads to “a whole plethora of opportunities and ritual initiative that can be very, very beneficial to everyone present,” states. Dr. Somé.
Excerpted from:  The Natural Medicine Guide to Schizophrenia, or The Natural Medicine Guide to Bi-polar Disorder, pages 178-189, Stephanie Marohn (featuring Malidoma Patrice Somé).
Credits: Reposted here with permission via Waking Times